MOM, DAD .. I LOVE YOU!!

Pernahkah anda menatap wajah orang-orang terdekat dengan anda ketika ia sedang tidur? Kalau belum, cubalah sekali sahaja menatap wajah-wajah ketenangan mereka ketika sedang tidur.

Ketika itu yang kelihatan adalah ekspresi paling wajar dan paling jujur dari seseorang.

Seorang artis yang ketika di panggung, di layar perak, di kaca tv begitu cantik dan gemerlapan pun boleh jadi akan kelihatan sederhana dan jauh berbeza jika ia sedang tidur. Orang paling kejam di dunia pun jika ia sudah tidur, tidak akan kelihatan wajah bengisnya.

Perhatikanlah ayah anda ketika beliau sedang tidur. Sedarilah, betapa badan yang dulu sasa dan gagah itu kini semakin tua dan lemah, betapa rambut-rambut putih mulai menghiasi kepalanya, betapa kerut merut mulai terpahat diwajahnya. Orang inilah yang setiap hari bekerja keras untuk kesejahteraan kita, anak-anaknya. Orang inilah rela melakukan apa sahaja asal perut kita kenyang dan pendidikan kita lancar.

Sekarang, beralihlah. Lihatlah ibu anda. Hmm... kulitnya mulai keriput dan tangan yang dulu halus membelai-belai tubuh bayi kita itu kini kasar kerana tempaan hidup yang keras. Orang inilah yang tiap hari mengurus keperluan kita. Orang inilah yang paling rajin mengingatkan dan mengomeli kita semata-mata kerana rasa kasih dan sayang, dan sayangnya, itu sering kita salah ertikan.

LIFE AND SHARING

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MY FAVAURITE COLOR

my favorite color is 

"RED"

i like red because 

it is expressive

vibrant

and

red creates emotions

such as passion

fear

excitement

caution

and love

red is a color that can both attract and deter

red can also symbolize many different things at once

red is complex yet familiar

these are the many reasons
why red is my favorite color!

I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY

happiness is every where

the problem when darkness come 

and it feels like everything is bad 

u go on the baddest mood

but u have many chances to be happy

happiness comes when u feel free with ur friends

just think about what makes u happy

and do it even if its insane as hell

everything comes but just think about today

not about yesterday or tomorrow

today is something new

keep ur mind away of worries

believe in god :) will make ur soul proud 

will make ur heart change!

god could make anything 

if today someone broke ur heart 

believe that god knows where’s the right one 

that fits exactly with ur soul & heart :) 

nana lake

will anyone listen to me? 

no one to talk

all these people they don’t understand

they have no clue

someone help

i will die

under my own hands problems

everyone has them

i will throw up again

i will harm myself

i just want to be happy

.............................. to be continue!

KAWAN.TAK.LEBIH.DARI.ITU

- whatever -

RESPECT

credit to santhy oohh lalalaaa..

do u know what it means to respect someone?

it means that

u treat that person

just the way u would like to be treated

..

okeh!

WRONG WORD WRONG EXPECTATION

i was disappointed ..

whatever dis just for u ..

JIKA AKU JATUH HATI

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim


Ya Allah, jika aku jatuh cinta

cintakanlah aku pada seseorang yang melabuhkan cintanya padaMu
agar bertambah kekuatanku untuk menyintaiMu

Ya Muhaimin

jika aku jatuh hati

izinkanlah aku menyentuh hati seseorang yang hatinya bertaut padaMu

agar tidak terjatuh dalam jurang cinta nafsu

Ya Rabbana

jika aku jatuh cinta

jagalah hatiku padanya

agar tidak berpaling daripada hatiMu

Ya Rabbul Izzati

jika aku rindu

rindukanlah aku pada seseorang yang merindui syahid di jalanMu.

Ya Allah

jika aku menikmati cinta kekasihMu

janganlah kenikmatan itu melebihi kenikmatan

indahnya bermunajat di sepertiga malam akhirMu

Ya Allah

jika aku jatuh hati pada kekasihMu

jangan biarkan aku tertatih dan terjatuh

dalam perjalanan panjang menyeru manusia padaMumerindui syahid di jalanMu

Ya Allah

jika Kau halalkan aku merindui kekasihMu jangan biarkan aku melampaui batas

sehingga melupakan

aku pada cinta hakiki

dan rindu abadi hanya kepadaMu

IM UR FIRST PRIORITY NOT UR LAST OPTION

and i learned what is obvious to a child

that life is simply a collection of little live

seach lived one day at a time

that each day should be spent finding beauty in flowers and poetry and talking to animals

that a day spent with dreaming and sunsets and refreshing breezes cannot be bettered

but most of all

i learned that life is about sitting on benches

next to ancient creeks

with my hand on her knee and sometimes

on good days

for falling in love

being beautiful is more then how many boys you can get to look at you

or how much make-up you can wear

it's about what you live for

it's about what defines you

it's about the heart that you have and what makes you special

it's about those little quirks that make you, YOU

It's about going against the flow and living out what you honestly think

and that is a beautiful thing

it's the possibility that keeps us going

not the guarantee

people used to tell me that the first time you fall in love

it changes your life forever

and no matter how hard you try

the feeling never goes away

do you ever just sit there and wonder

why he chose you?

do you ever stop and think that

it was just to good to be true?

does it ever seem like your afraid to lose him

because

without him your whole life will be ruined

failing is the first step to success

crying is the first step to happiness

and

heart break is the first step to true love

and I hope the sun shines

and it's a beautiful day I hope something reminds you of me

and you wish you had stayed

we can plan for change in the weather and time

but

i never planned on you to stop loving me

im not even upset, hurt or angry anymore

im just tired

tired of putting in more effort that I recieve

im tired of holding on for nothing

im tired of believing all your lies

im tired of you proving me

wrong every time.

im tired of getting my hopes up only to be disappointed again

one day when it's way too late you're going to say

"I love you"

then when I don't reply

you're going to muster up everything you have

and ask

"Do you love me?"

and you know what i'm going to say

"I used to love you, I wish I still did,

but you were with all those other girls

and you were way too blind to see

what was right in front of you the whole time

i've dropped you hints

and I've tried to make it clear

but you never caught on

so right now I'm going to say

we're just friends

like you did to me all those times"

time is money and you ain't worth a fucking dime

for all the lies I've tasted, just looking for the truth

for all the dreams I'm chasing

well what am I to do

when everything's against me

and the answers are all wrong

i hope that i find out it was worth it all along

LURVE

you are the only trace i left

the things is

u make me happy

u walked in when it seemes like the rest of the world walked out u were there.

i never need to pretend when im around u

when im talking, when im with u

u are the hilarious, u make me laugh all the time.

u seem to pick up when something is wrong before everyone else does

and u know exactly what to say to make it all okay

and even if it is only for a little while, it helps

the thing is

i might love you

and

Thank You (:

what consumes your mind, controls your life

every girl thinks she can change a player

but the truth is, it's not the player that needs to change

it's the girl

every player is on a mission

to find that one girl that makes them lose their desire to play

sometimes, we're too into the moment to look at the big picture

we fail to see things in perspective because we're too absorbed

in what's taking place at that very instance

the thing is we should face reality

find ourselves from being lost in the moment and think about everything the way it is

because sometimes being realistic can save us from pain and disappointment.

she likes u a lot

she just has a funny way to show it

but hey.... so do u!!

the reasons I'm alone i know by heart

but I don't want to spend forever in the dark

i swear next time I'll hang on for dear life

if love ever gives me another try

u were the one who taught me the value of love

things don't always change with a bang

sometimes they change so gradually

that you can't clearly pinpoint the last moment they were truly the same

it seems like a new life

let's be hasty, and let's be reckless

just being with you leaves me breathless

insyaallah (:

.........waiting for your something (:

101 REASONS TO STAY SINGLE

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Author’s Note:

Thank you all for your support! When I originally published this article years ago, I never expected it to become so popular! Now that I'm happily engaged and this article has been optioned to be adapted into a TV series, I've created a new list called 101 Reasons to Get (and Stay!) Married. Enjoy, and whether you're single or married, remember: it's your life. Live it however you want to live it.

1. Everything in your house is yours.

2. You don't have to hide gifts, receipts, and other purchase records in ridiculous places.

3. If you buy something "yummy", you don't have to buy twice as much.

4. The only person you have to dress up for is your boss.

5. Your late nights are all yours.

6. Less stuff to move when you do move

7. One bedroom apartments feel more spacious with only one person

8. You never have to ask for permission to orgasm.

9. Only the doctor can tell you what to eat

10. You decide what to shave and when

11. Valentines day costs less

12. No anniversaries to remember

13. No extra birthdays to remember

14. No extra family to shop for during the holidays

15. No irritating in-laws to deal with

16. You can walk around naked whenever you want.

17. Only your sense of decency has any say about where you leave your dirty clothes.

18. You don't have to share

19. You don't have to change your life because someone else has jealousy issues.

20. The only insecurities you have to deal with are your own.

21. Getting that out-of-state job doesn't hinge on what someone else wants or thinks.

22. The only people complaining about music volume are the neighbors.

23. You can fall asleep anywhere without getting any guff for it in the morning.

24. You don't have to use the "headache" excuse anymore.

25. You don't have to worry as much about the "oops, I'm pregnant" factor.

26. The only person who goes through your stuff is you.

27. The only person who sees your inbox is you.

28. More time to spend with friends.

29. You don't have to live with someone who can't stand your parents.

30. If you want to go for pizza at 3am, no one stops you or asks you why.

31. You can date more freely.

32. The cute secretary is fair game.

33. The whole wedding mess? Yeah, none of that to deal with.

34. You don't have to share your closet with anyone else.

35. You always get to watch what you want.

36. You always get to read what you want.

37. You decide when to crawl into bed.

38. You can throw yourself into bed and snore without dire consequences.

39. No one else's annoying (or disgusting) habits to deal with at home.

40. The only fetishes you have to deal with are your own.

41. You can talk to yourself without people saying "what?" or worrying about your sanity.

42. There are religious benefits, if you're into that kind of thing.

43. Single people can still adopt, if you're into that kind of thing.

44. The only annoying friends you have to deal with are your own.

45. You don't ever have to wonder if you really love the person you live with.

46. There's only one way to do things- your way.

47. You are the master of the thermostat.

48. The only messes you have to clean up are your own.

49. The only disasters you have to fix are your own.

50. If an argument starts, you can walk away... forever.

51. You don't have to make excuses for yourself.

52. The whole "old maid" thing is so last century.

53. Dinner can be as simple as a frozen burrito.

54. When you eat, you buy and cook for one.

55. No one else is going to eat your leftovers.

56. No one else is going to raid your stash of sweets (you don't even have to hide it!)

57. You don't have to share your bed with anyone.

58. You can even eat in bed if you want to.

59. You can decorate the entire house according to your taste.

60. The only person spending your money is you.

61. Three words: Marriage Tax Penalty.

62. The only debts you have to pay off are your own.

63. Kids with single parents can get more financial aid.

64. Bickering couples are at best a relieving reminder and at worst hilarious.

65. Less pressure about body weight.

66. Married people are fatter on average anyway.

67. Suddenly, it's okay to look (and flirt).

68. It's easier to focus on your career and your dreams.

69. You're the only person who gets to decide if you "need to make more money."

70. The only mood swings you have to deal with are your own.

71. There are a lot of lonely and violently psychopathic people out there.

72. You don't have to change your religious beliefs one bit.

73. There are 6.5 Billion other fish in the sea. That's 6,500 x 1 million. Yeah.

74. Porn is cheaper, easier, and comes in more varieties.

75. The toilet seat only moves when you move it.

76. Cohabitation is legal, fun, and less of a hassle than marriage.

77. You don't have to deal with someone else's kids all the time.

78. Divorce is pricey.

79. You don't have to deal with "compliment fishing."

80. Fewer minutes spent with a phone attached to your ear.

81. No endless nagging.

82. You never have to answer the phone "right now!"

83. You can drink what you want, where you want, and as much as you want.

84. No doubts or worries about someone sleeping around.

85. Things stay where you put them.

86. You can meditate and have your quiet time when you need it.

87. The only thing whining about not being fed is your cat.

88. You can take out the trash when you feel like it.

89. You can shower or bathe when you want, as often as you want, for as long as you want.

90. You can even leave the door open when you shower.

91. The longer you wait, the better you know yourself, instead of someone else.

92. Children learn how to treat themselves by watching how you treat yourself.

93. A bad relationship is like a lingering knife wound- it continues to ruin your whole day.

94. You can be as eccentric as you want.

95. Your car can be as dirty or unusual or artistic as you want.

96. You decide how long it takes to get ready.

97. Say goodbye to heartache, dumping, and being dumped.

98. You get your weekends for you and your projects.

99. You can be the wild friend with all the really juicy stories.

100. You can still get laid. Maybe even more often. Certainly with more variety.

101. Being single and staying single isn't selfish. It should be seen as putting your happiness first (Where it should be.)

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Loved by millions, featured on countless blogs and even optioned for adaptation into a television series, this newly revised and released "Reasons to Stay Single" features nearly a hundred and forty reasons to stay away from commitment-- forever! Whether you're married, single or just looking for a laugh, this "big list of the benefits of bachelorism" is definitely for you!